TL;DR

Here’s a very long list of retrospective questions which, if used wisely and seldomly (at least twice per year; at most monthly), can help you spot patterns and behaviors you may want to address.

As a pro tip, get a notebook where you’ll be answering all these questions. Yeah, I know, probably a better idea nowadays would be to store it digitally and then feed it into ChatGPT for some conclusions, but there’s still something with actually writing stuff down by hand (you can still OCR it if your writing is readable 🙂).

Anyways, hope this proves to be useful on your improvement path 💪

Disclaimer: I’m not the author of these questions. But, for the life of me, I can’t remember where I got these from (yes, I Googled and ChatGPT-ed). If you do, please ping me an I’ll update the post.

The Questions™

1. Who am I?
2. Am I living the life I want? Why yes or why no?
3. If I had 1 year to live, what would I do?
4. If I had 1 month to live, what would I do?
5. If I had 1 week to live, what would I do?
6. If I had 1 day to live, what would I do?
7. If I had 1 hour to live, what would I do?
8. If I had 1 minute to live, what would I do?
9. What would I regret the most if I died right now?
10. What advice would I give to myself 3 years ago?
11. What advice would I give to myself 1 year ago?
12. What advice would I give to myself 1 month ago?
13. What advice would I give to myself 1 week ago?
14. What had to be done yesterday, and I didn’t do it?
15. What do I want to achieve until the end of my life?
16. What do I want to achieve in 5 years?
17. What do I want to achieve in 3 years?
18. What do I want to achieve in 1 year?
19. What do I want to stay remembered for?
20. Why are these things important to me?
21. What is stopping me and how can I achieve them?
22. Do I know people that achieved similar goals?
23. What opportunities am I seeing in my environment, and how can I use them?
24. Have my recent activities brought me closer to my goals?
25. What do I need to do in the next week to get closer to completing my goals?
26. What’s my biggest priority for next week?
27. What will I do about it?
28. What can I do so that the following week will be less stressful?
29. What was I avoiding to do, and it had to be done?
30. What prevented me from doing that?
31. What were my wins in the last week?
32. What did I learn in the last week?
33. What moment was unforgettable in the last week and why?
34. What am I grateful for?
35. Do I love my self, and why?
36. What is the one thing I could do for free till the rest of my life?
37. Do I like what I do, or am I at least trying to make it work?
38. What’s my biggest fear? How can I overcome it?
39. Who are the 5 people that I spend the most time with?
40. Do these people motivate or limit me?
41. Who inspires/motivates me the most currently? Why?
42. Who’s the most important person in my life, and have I dedicated her/him enough of my time?
43. Who am I going to dedicate the time in the next week?
44. Who deserves my gratitude this week?
45. How, whom and why can I help?
46. Have I dedicated enough time to myself?
47. Which habits should I keep on enforcing?
48. Which habits should I get rid of?
49. What was the time sink last week?
50. Is this what I do today be important in 1 year?
51. Is this what I do today be important in 3 years?
52. Is this what I do today be important in 5 years?
53. What can I simplify in my life?
54. What can I delegate in the next week and to whom?
55. If life is so short, why do we do so many things we don’t like and like so many things we’re not doing?
56. When all’s said and done, will you have the feeling that you said more than did?
57. If the average human life span would be 40 years – how would you live your life?
58. How much of your life’s path are you controlling?
59. If you could offer one advice to the newborn (presuming it could understand you I guess), what would it be?
60. Who would you like to have as a mentor in your life? How can you get to this person?
61. Is there something you didn’t do, and you really want to do it? What’s stopping you?
62. What would I do if I had no limits in terms of money, time and resources?
63. If you had to move to a different country, what would it be?
64. Would you rather be a worried genius or a happy fool?
65. Are you the sort of friend you’d like to have?
66. Has your greatest fear ever come true?
67. Do you remember a time 5 years ago when you were really stressed about something – is this important today?
68. If you win a lottery would you quit your job and why?
69. Do you feel like you’ve lived today’s day 100 times?
70. If I had a million $, what would I do and why?
71. If everyone you know would die tomorrow, who would you visit today?
72. Would you be willing to lower your life expectancy for 10 years in an exchange for being extremely pretty and famous?
73. Where did you live primarily in the past week? In the past, present or future?
74. If I had more guts, willing to take any risk, what would I do?
75. Decisions are made here and now. Are you making your decisions or are they being made for you?
76. What’s the purpose of my life?
77. What will I do right now so that I would live a life with purpose?
78. Is the current work I do meaningful for me?
79. Is this job going to give me a chance to develop?
80. Am I going to learn new things?
81. Will I have the opportunity for recognition and achievement?
82. Am I going to be given responsibility?

Dude, this is too much

If these feel too much, it’s because they should. Improvement doesn’t come from thinking about your life for 2 minutes. Nor 20 (although a great step up from 2, or worse yet: 0). It usually takes me about an hour and a half to go through these and write them down. YMMV.

However, since you won’t be going through the whole list weekly, here are a few to ask yourself on a weekly basis (ideally when you prep your next weeks’ agenda):

1. What’s my biggest priority for next week?
2. What will I do about it?
3. What can I do so that the following week will be less stressful?

Protip: work on that biggest thing (as Brian Tracy says: eat that frog!) first thing in the morning!

Conclusion

Really, there’s not much to say here other than to challenge you to do it and see if it moves the needle for you in your life. Good luck!

When espanso Breaks on Long Replacement Strings (and How to Fix It)

Hey friends 👋

Today’s post is a quick one, but it might save you from a few head scratches and keyboard punches if you’re an espanso user who’s been wondering why your juicy long replacement snippets randomly just… don’t show up.

If you’re wondering what Espanso is, check this blog post: Espanso: Because Who Actually Likes Typing Out Their Emails?

TL;DR ☕

• Long replacement strings (>100 chars) can silently break in espanso
• This is due to the default clipboard_threshold config
• You can fix it by setting a higher threshold in default.yml

!TL;DR ☕

If you came for the story, here we go: so, here’s what I ran into…

The Problem: Long Replacements Just Break 🧨

I’ve been using espanso for a while now (it’s a neat little open-source text expander that makes typing repetitive stuff a breeze). All was fine and dandy—until I tried adding a longer replacement string, something like:

- trigger: ":some-long-snippet"
  replace: "Dear passangers, we have good news and bad news. Good news is we are landing. Bad news is we are crash landing!"

And poof—nothing. The replacement just didn’t happen. What’s even worse, it would usually trigger the command prompt in editors (similar to pressing CMD + k or CMD + p).

At first, I thought it was something I’d messed up in the syntax. I double-checked, triple-checked… nope, looked fine.

Then I started wondering if maybe the issue was platform-specific. I’m running the newest version on a up2date Mac. Thought it was some weird key combo or something – but, no.

So yeah, turns out…

There’s a Hardcoded Limit (But You Can Fix It!) 🛠️

After digging around a bit—and with a helpful tip from a fellow redditor—I discovered that espanso has a clipboard_threshold setting buried in the default.yml config file (located at ~/.config/espanso/default.yml).

And it looks like this:

# clipboard_threshold: 100

Yep, it was commented out by default.

So what’s this do? If your replacement string is longer than the threshold (default is 100 characters), espanso silently fails to insert it. No warning. No logs. Nada.

The Fix: Increase the Clipboard Threshold 🙌

To fix this, all you need to do is:

1. Open your ~/.config/espanso/default.yml
2. Uncomment or add the clipboard_threshold setting
3. Set it to something higher, like 500:

clipboard_threshold: 500

4. Save the file and reload espanso (if it doesn’t reload automatically)

espanso restart

And voilà, your long replacements now work like a charm 🎉

Conclusion

If you’ve hit this issue too, I hope this saves you some time. And if you’re just diving into espanso, maybe take this as a reminder to skim the config docs sooner rather than later 😅

Happy expanding!

…was pleasantly surprised to receive this in the mail today. Yes, snail mail 🙂

Thanks to dev.to for being thoughtful.

The post that got me the top author award was: Getting started with React by building a Pokemon search application

Happy Saturday!

"Hara hachi bun me", a Japanese concept which means "Eat until you’re 80% full". While intuitive, it’s sad that one needs to be reminded of it.

Those who say talent doesn’t matter are liars.

Those who stop at talent are failures.

Federer said it best:

Yes, talent matters. I’m not going to stand here and tell you it doesn’t.
But talent has a broad definition.
Most of the time, it’s not about having a gift. It’s about having grit. In tennis, like in life, discipline is also a talent. And so is patience.
Trusting yourself is a talent. Embracing the process—loving the process—is a talent. Managing your life, managing yourself.
These can be talents, too. Some people are born with them. Everybody has to work at them.

Isn’t it interesting that we often make our best score when we’re not trying to make the best score?

However, there’s something to be said about the fact that you play as you practice.

So, practice well and deliberately.

Once you do, you’ll see it’s not fun. Well, not all the time, at least. But, it has to be done once you enter the level of 1 percenters.

Why? Because only that will enable you to ‘just do’, and not ‘think’.

It’s a job, you say!? Welcome to the real world of professional X (where x is any profession) 😉

If all you do is succeed in each and every thing you do, you just may not be pushing yourself enough.

Failure reveals your true character.

James Clear said it really well:

"The secret to winning is learning how to lose. That is, learning to bounce back from failure and disappointment—undeterred—and continuing to steadily march toward your potential. Your response to failure determines your capacity for success."

It isn’t easy to start a new (better?) habit, routine, diet, relationship. Yet, it’s not the history nor the events that shape our future the most, it’s the outlook, the mindset that we decide to have about them.

Do you feel you’ve given your everything? Do More. It’ll pay off in abundance in due time.

If the only thing you got from reading the book is one new/affirmed idea, it was very much worth your time. Multiply that idea by the number of books you read and all the years you’ll live and you’ll get a perfect compound interest formula (that you’ll often read about as well 😉